One of those days...

"My life has been one of contrasts..."

(2004 - Frazer's Hill with the Honda Shadow)

On one hand I yearn to be pampered and loved, to be surrounded by friends, old and new, and marvel at life accomplishments.

On the other hand I feel a deep disconnection with my surroundings, I love to be alone, just whisper to the wind, or sit atop a craggy peak in solitude and reflect on my life. I am happy to be alone, only me, the earth and the sky. When I feel contemplative, I find great solace in venturing into the wilderness or listen to the collection of old songs and forget the mess that accumulates in my head.

I am ranting because today was just one of those days, and I am expecting more to go wrong in days to come. And the following weeks' forecast reveals a repeat of bad everything too.

Reunion with the seniors...

Friends we are, forever friends we'll be,

Wherever we are, you're right beside me.

I hope we stay friends 'til the end of time,

And whenever that is, our friendship will still shine.

Standing L-R: Nong, Kak Aini Ramly

Seated L-R: Kak Zaiton, Kak Ani Ismail

A darkened passage...

"Do you know what I am saying when I am not saying anything at all?"

(Masked beauties in Istanbul Grand Bazaar...)

Nobody knows what's going on in my head. And I shouldn't assume that anyone know what I was upset about. We see things differently. Something that annoys me may not mean anything to anyone.

When I am disappointed and annoyed, it’s easy to trap myself into doing what I don’t want to do. The silence creates a sense of abandonment and sadness. But my stone-walling is in no way hinder me from doing what I desire.

There is a darkened passage in my mind
Too frightened to know what I might find,
But every time you look into my eyes
You know my heart never lies...

My ego unravels…

"It takes a long time to build a relationship. But it does not take a second to destroy it..."

(Batang Ai Resort, Sarawak)

I am weary. Do not ask why I have become so touchy of words used.

Argument over inconsequential issues, petty matters may lead to a gradual erosion of trust. Most of the time, very often, it was never a case of deliberate act. Instead, it was just a normal gesture. It is quite normal to be cautious. Unfortunately, caution itself can become a handicap when worry grows to a point of extreme which lead me to become defensive. This diminishes my ability to be my own self and be in balance. It can create a state of isolated paranoia to one degree or another.

I am not settling scores or avenging a hurt feeling. In essence, my silent days reflect an injured ego which after a while will not matter much any more.

Kelantan - Life chapters re-written…

'"What happens if the chapters of our lives are rewritten?..."

I was in KB for 3 days to attend YB Ubai’s wedding reception for her eldest daughter. I had the opportunity to meet with many old friends, some I have not met since primary school. I noticed the great change among friends, from cute innocent kids to successful well-mannered adults. For some, the pursuit of happiness, sanity, or even survival, has transformed their lives, for better or for worst. In what ever short time we have, we reminisced of happy days and talked about the search for life contentment in its many forms - financial, emotional, physical and spiritual - and the stories of us striving to come to terms with the lives we lead.

One thing for sure, we accept our lives as given and all things in life are temporary. If going well we should enjoy them, they will not last forever. If going wrong, we don't need to worry much, they can't last long either.

(The pretty grandmamas)

Standing L-R: Aina, Rohaya, Hasnah, Rohani, Ameera, Mahiran, Nashitah, Noriah

Seated L-R: Nong, Nor Aizan, Adilah

(The handsome grandpapas)

L-R: Doc Iskandar, Fakhri, Col Abdul, Nik Hassan, Mustafa

(A garden Party)

L-R: Nong, Hasnah, Nik's son, YB Ubai, Ameera, Nik Kamaliah, Noriah