About Me

I am married to my loving husband for more than 45 years now. I am a mother to 3 beautiful children, until years ago when I lost my youngest son. Since then my life is forever altered but yet unbroken....

Saturday, 26 January 2019

Family Get-Together at Bidara House...

“The informality of family life is a blessed condition that allows us all to become our best while looking our worst...” – Marge Kennedy

(All in the family, cheerful and noisy)

It was our turn to host the first family gathering for 2019.

Less than a month after my cervical neck bone operation, I am still experiencing that depressing chronic fatigue syndrome. Daily housework can be challenging enough. And it can be more exhausting to just think about what need to be done around the house and what dishes to cook for the family gathering.

To conserve energy and not to aggravate my existing symptoms, we decided to order Lamb and Chicken Nasi Arab from Hadramawt Restaurant for the main dish. The rest of the food was pot-luck dishes and dessert from the rest of the family. And the food was in abundance!

After a sumptuous dinner, we had a discussion about the details of the up-coming event of our niece Tasha’s wedding to be held in early March.

(A spread of dishes readily served in the kitchen)
(Living room, for the gentlemen)
(Dining table, the ladies favorite corner)
(Our antique rattan rocking chairs still serve their purposes)

Thursday, 3 January 2019

Back bone surgery...

"Time doesn't heal anything. It just teaches us how to live with the pain..."

(The MRI results)

I was diagnosed with chronic Cervical spondylosis.

This condition is often characterised by intervertebral disk degeneration of the cervical spine. Based on the MRI results I have herniated cervical disks at C3/C4, C4/C5 and C6/C7. The spine specialist suspected my constant pain in the upper back, neck and shoulder joints is caused by the impingement of the exiting nerve roots.

The Spine Specialist suggested an operation to treat the herniated cervical disks. Under general anesthesia, I undergone an hour of non-invasive laser operation and warded for two days. They had scheduled a few follow-up appointments with the specialist and physio-therapist. For now I had to wear a neck brace for a month and refrain from riding or travelling long distance for the next three months.

At my age, I guess I need more time to recuperate.

(Grounded for good)